So you fought with my mother today. Do not read further for the reason as there is always something new to fight about. They say we fight with people who are the most near to us. We keep the ability to show our anger mostly to the people we know will never rebound. Mothers are the coziest ones on earth, and hence the best targets to hurt. Then comes a father probably, or a sweetheart. A sibling also manages his or her place somewhere in the picture. There is always a best friend whom we irritate, frustrate and insult almost every second day. But, by the virtue of being a best friend, we get them back with us, cursing us on all of our misdeeds and at the same time harping onto us their share of insults.
So as you leave home today after the fight and remorse settles in, one wonders how many times in the week you would hurt the poor soul. You love her no doubt and she knows that, you wish to say sorry but can never get yourself to do that. We all can get bad with expressions and letting people know that we love them.
There are many like who have their share of stories to tell. Stories of regrets, remorse and apologies. And this gets us contemplating some of the ways to get back to your loved ones saying that you really love them. That they are very precious and hence you cannot afford to hurt them and not say I Love You Too.
People argue if love can be measured in terms of bunches of flowers that one gifts. Well you can’t be sure of the accuracy, but it sure magically melts the moment. They make people happier. If nothing at all, flowers are such beautiful way to assert beauty and preciousness. So here is the solution. Gift flowers! They are pretty, cherished and quite personal too.
To add to the preciousness of the small gestures, you can get customized flower bouquets available for sale on the web these days. Websites like chameleonjohn.com helps you browse through various garlanding options and choose the best for the occasion. The site also offers discount coupons on certain styles and designs, making it pocket friendly. Funny or hypocrite it may sound, but budget remains a big barrier in the idea of gifting people.
So it makes life even easier. So in other words, you can continue to fight with your mother dearest, or daddy darling or love interest as you know when you get back to feeling sorry, there will always be a chameleonjohn.com at the rescue!
On a second thought, why just apologies? Flowers depict much more than that. The assertion that somebody cares for you even without a reason does a million more thanks giving than occasional gifts. To add to it, chameleonjohn.com keeps sending newsletters for the latest discounts on designs. A good idea then, I feel, would be to just send Ma a fresh bouquet of flowers every now and then, reminding her that despite the adamancy and short temperedness, I still care. Probably getting flowers on an otherwise somber day might reassert to her that I Love her too, like she does every day.
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